Thursday, July 15, 2021

The Six Fold Path.

Let's start by stating that I am not a Buddhist. I do, however, appreciate much of what Buddhism has to offer. The Noble Eight Fold path is of course the basis of Buddhist teachings:

However, being raised in materialistic/capitalistic America, I have always struggled to follow that path. Of course the goal is to recognize that life is suffering and pursue enlightenment to release oneself from the illusions of life to help end suffering.

Well, my suffering was caused by having to look at my neighbor's ugly white plastic fence and his consistently unkept yard. 


He never cleaned his fence, cut his grass, or did any weeding or yard work. The best I could hope for was that he would cut his grass once a year. 

Now, admittedly, I am obsessed with yard work. I know my efforts will never be permanent and its all just an illusion that will revert back to nature once I am no longer around to manage the appearance of my perception of beauty. Nevertheless, I do so love weeding, planting, and general yard and garden work. It is like meditation to me. I can do it all day without complaint. However, I just could not free myself from the struggle to ignore the ugliness of the neighbor's property. It ate at my soul and was preventing me from attaining even a false sense of enlightenment.

So, unable to adhere to most of the tenants of the Noble Eight Fold Path, I instead pursued my own Selfish Six Fold Path:

  1. build a fence
  2. have six 8' panels
  3. fill the panels with solid cedar boards
  4. hide the view of the ugly plastic fence
  5. add new plants to beautify the viewing and stroll gardens
  6. end my suffering and enjoy the new view
Admittedly, not an ideal path towards the Buddhist concept of enlightenment, but I have to follow my own path. My suffering has been greatly diminished, and I am much pleased with the new fence. Yes, I have allowed pride to drive me towards a path that seems contradictory to the Noble Eight Fold Path. Honestly, I don't care. I'm happy, the garden is happy, and my Selfish Six Fold Path has helped me move further along my own journey towards enlightenment.

May these views of the fence and garden bring you as much happiness as the new view of the garden fills my heart with joy:







3 comments:

  1. You have done well! It is beautiful, serene and gentle. I love it! Not my style of garden at all, but it is lovely. To each his own.

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    1. Thanks. It’s a great improvement for what this area was originally intended - a parking space for a camper. No need to go camping anymore, I have paradise in my backyard.

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  2. It as absolutely beautiful! The timing of your blog is perfect for me, as I am currently studying the 8-fold path. I loved your comparisons to it!
    I too have spent many days in my gardens this summer and gain joy doing so. Thanks for sharing your story with us!

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